Archive for May, 2008

Preserve Friendships

Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

Never abandon a friend—
either yours or your father’s.
When disaster strikes, you won’t have to ask your brother for    assistance.
It’s better to go to a neighbor than to a brother who lives far    away.

Proverbs 27:10

Encouragement for Today
This is a good verse for our transient culture. We need to cultivate friendships deep enough that we can count on these friends in times of trouble. These are the people who know us and are such a part of our daily lives that we have a right to call on them, and vice versa. As you think about your priorities and obligations, keep these ongoing relationships high on your list.

Tips for Successful Breastfeeding

Friday, May 9th, 2008

Lilypie Breastfeeding Ticker

  1. Don’t ever give up
  2. Use quality nursing bras and clothes
  3. If you’re planning on breastfeeding for a long time, (6 months and beyond) don’t ever mix the feeding with formulas. Mixing formula milk can lessen the milk supply. When the baby is fed other than breastmilk and is filled with it, the baby may suck milk from the breast less. The production of milk supply depends on the amount the baby takes. So the lesser the baby drinks milk, the lesser the supply. Thus, avoid mixing with formulas.
  4. Feed on demand or scheduled. Whichever works best is good.
  5. Use a quality breastpump. I used Avent (manual pump) SIS. It’s the best for me. I could store milk and ask hubby to feed the baby when I was feeling exhausted.
  6. Don’t ever give up.

by: janet

Breastfeeding Journey

Friday, May 9th, 2008

Lilypie Breastfeeding Ticker

I’m a strong advocate of breastfeeding. Breastmilk is the best milk of all times. It benefits both the mother and baby. For baby, it gives her the total nutrition for the 1st 6 months of her life. According to survey, breastfed babies tend to have higher IQ’s compared to formula fed babies. They tend to be stronger and healthier. The longer you breastfeed, the better. For mothers, it can reduce postpartum bleeeding, reduce the risk of ovarian and breast cancer and can actually help in going back to prepegnancy weight fast.

I breastfed my first child, Schenker, for 16 months. I am glad I did. I’m happy that I gave him the best start of his life. He might be a picky eater now, but he’s healthy and smart. Although it took me a while to regain my prepegnancy weight because I gained more than I was supposed to gain. It was my fault. But with my second, a few months of breastfeeding and I was back to my prepregnancy weight.

Here’s my BF journey with my little girl, Samantha:

When Samantha was just born, I asked my Ob/Gynae if I could breastfeed Samantha first before taking her to the nursery. She said yes. So I did. She gave Samantha to me and I started taking her mouth to latch on. She finally did after a few tries. It was wonderful… It was like an instinct for her to latch on and suck. I didn’t have milk coming in (or out?)yet but she did suck.
3rd day – the milk finally came in. we were at home then. it was so difficult to get up and take her to feed coz my stitches were really painful everytime I moved. and how painful it was for my milk “machine” too! it was really tempting to give formula coz it was really very painful and I didn’t have enough rest. but i tried resisting the urge coz I knew if i started giving formula, the milk production will decrease.

5th day – i almost wanna give up. after all the pain… tiredness… and sleepness nights… i just wanna abort the idea of breastfeeding samantha (exclusively)… But peter was very supportive (or pushy?) of breastfeeding. i told him actually that i wanna give up already… but he asked me to wait for at least one more week. and i said okay… why not… one more week wasn’t too long.

after a week- i felt comfortable feeding her already… no more pain… the milk was flowing to the max… sometimes Samantha would cry in frustration because she couldn’t keep up with the flow. she would unlatch and the milk would just spray like someone from inside was spraying the milk out! and i thought, i had breastfed my boy for 16 long months… why not for samantha? so i decided to keep going.

now – still happily breastfeeding (plus solids now). and planning to do as long as we both can do it!

way to go samantha! way to go… me! hehehe.

I am a strong advocate of breastfeeding. Everytime I know somebody’s getting pregnant or somebody’s gonna give birth, I talk to them about breastfeeding. It would be good to know that through breastfeeding, we let our children get the best start in life.

Tips for a Successful Breastfeeding

by: janet

Good Intentions

Wednesday, May 7th, 2008

The king summoned Nathan the prophet. “Look,” David said, “I am living in a beautiful cedar palace, but the Ark of God is out there in a tent!” …

“O LORD of Heaven’s Armies, God of Israel, I have been bold enough to pray this prayer to you because you have revealed all this to your servant, saying, ‘I will build a house for you—a dynasty of kings!’ For you are God, O Sovereign LORD. Your words are truth, and you have promised these good things to your servant.”

2 Samuel 7:2, 27–28

Encouragement for Today
David had good intentions: to build a temple for the Lord, something fitting for his glory. David felt it wasn’t right to live in a palace while the Ark—the symbol of God’s presence—resided in a tent. However, God told him, in effect, “You think you can bless and provide for me? No, it’s the other way around. In fact, I have plans for you, and here they are!” (See verses 4-17.) David’s response was one of humility, gratitude, and wonder. When you want to “do something” for God, check it out with Scripture. Are you sure you have his perspective?

Kids and Husband are Sick, Again

Wednesday, May 7th, 2008

My boy contracted a flu virus when we went to celebrate his grandmother’s birthday. Before going there, they didn’t tell us that his grandfather had flu. We went there happily to celebrate her birthday. Their grandfather also was very happy playing with them, although he had a flu. I just wished they were more sensitive to the kids being passed with a virus. My boy went down with a flu the day after and missed one week and one day of school. It was a bit frustrating on my part. We could have said no to going there and celebrate her birthday with her grandkids another day. When my boy recovered, my girl got the virus also, almost the same time with my husband. My girls is recovering now, my husband is still on bed, sick. Getting sick is rather normal. And flu virus is not very serious.

But what if the sickness is very serious? What if we need to go to hospital for treatment? I think if we’re not insured, we’d be dreading to send our sick ones to the hospital, knowing that the hospital costs nowadays has really gone up. The good thing is that we can always buy insurance policies.