Archive for August, 2008

kids’ interaction

Wednesday, August 20th, 2008

children who spend time around people of all ages are better prepared socially. provide opportunities for them to interact with a variety of different age levels.

let your children do things on their own. you can supervise if necessary, but letting them dress themselves or shop for their own clothes fosters independence and responsibility

by: janet

schedules and routine

Tuesday, August 19th, 2008

children need schedules and routine. they need things to be in order and to know ahead of time what is going to happen. it helps them feel loved and secure in a crazy world.

my boy, at 3.5 years did very well in being a ring bearer to his uncle’s wedding. why? we informed him earlier on that he’s going to carry the ring for his uncle on his wedding and we show our wedding video to him a few times and pointed out what he’s gonna do. we did this way ahead of time. we also told him that if he did very well, we will buy for him his favorite toy. he so wanted a water gun but we refused to buy it for him before. we didn’t say why not, so he persisted on getting his water gun. and so, before his uncle’s wedding, we promised to buy him his water gun once he walks down the aisle as a ring bearer. it worked really well.

by: janet

more on keeping the marriage great

Sunday, August 17th, 2008

i have something more to say on keeping the marriage great:

  • make time alone with your spouse a priority. schedule date night regularly – even if it’s in your own living room. i and my husband do this a lot. now with the kids still very young, and no help to take care of the kids, hubby and i learned the art of dating at home.
  • set a cozy environment for a cozy moment. burn some essential oils to keep your senses awake. try burning ylang ylang essential oil and lavender essential oil to set up the mood for cozy time. it works really well.
  • keep God in your marriage. let him be the center of your relationship. when He is, both will be conscious that whatever they do, it reflects on how both fear God.

by: janet

save a few trips

Sunday, August 17th, 2008

if your main baby-changing are is upstairs, keep a small basket stocked with extra diapers, lotion, and baby basics downstairs. this will save a few trips up and down the stairs.

that’s what i do with my kids now. i have a bathroom downstairs too. so i keep some stocks downstairs. i find it not only save time, it saves energy as well.

by: janet

Gymboree Activities for 16-22 Months Old

Sunday, August 17th, 2008

I joined Schenker, my son, in Gymboree in Bangsar Village here in Malaysia when he was 18 months old. After sessions, Gymboree would hand out sheets that explained why they did what they did that day. I am just so sorry that I didn’t keep all the information sheets. So now… Samantha is already 16 months old. So I started looking for those sheets. This was what I found: Gymboree Activities for 16-22 Months old… which is so timely.

doing on and off activities

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Engaging in activities that involved the concept of on and off provided lots of opportunities for children to practice their growing problem-solving skills. These activities also helped them work on their coordination and balance.

What We Learned Today:

  • At on and off central, the children exercised their upper and lower bodies as they climbed on and off the Wedge and Gymcushion. They also learned about the properties of objects as they rolled the beach balls off the Wedge and the Handle Ball off the Gymcushion. They learned about solving problems when they discovered Gymbo under the Minichute.
  • Climbing On and Off the Bridge gave the children the experience of being on and off. Narrating and labeling the children’s actions also nurtured language skills.
  • Our “Mashed Potato” Airlog activity exercised problem-solving skills as children learned to anticipate when the log would be rolled over, “spilling” them into their caregivers arms. It also helped with balance and commincation as they showed you what they thought of the activity. Were they thrilled, a bit frightened, or simply relaxed about the whole thing?

What You Can Do At Home:

Try the activities below to encourage your child’s ability to problem-solve and explore the concept of “on and off”:

  • Play on-and-off. Line up a variety of items that your child can climb on and off – such as stools of different heights, a low step-ladder, a low table, a couch cushion, etc. As you supervise carefuly, let your child practice climbing on and off these pieces. Use the cue words “on” and “off” as he climbs.
  • Play “pinata”. Hang a colorful beach ball from the ceiling above your child’s play area (attach a string to the extended air valve and hang ball just out of your child’s reach). See if he can figure out how to touch it, such as by throwing a ball or pillow or by climbing a low stool.
  • Hide a treasure. Hide a special object in your child’s play area and see if he can find it. At first, hide it in plain sight and then, as your child’s problem-solving skills become more sophisticated, slowly increase the difficulty of the hunt!

So there goes… I want to stress this again. These activities are developed by Gymboree.

Related articles:

Benefits of Playgroup

Enhance Your Baby’s Brain Development

by: janet