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Today is Good Friday

Friday, April 10th, 2009

Malaysia generally don’t observe Good Friday… let alone Holy Week. But I am sure Christians all over Malaysia are obsrving this special day when Jesus died on the cross to redeem God’s people.

There are different kinds of celebration for Good Friday. Others would re-enact the day Jesus was hanged on the cross. Others would be in silence. Others would wait until Easter Sunday to celebrate

But I cannot help it. I can’t stand the silence. I am rejoicing. I am in worship. I worship Him for who He is. I worship Him for His love and grace and mercy.

And I also pray…  constantly that He change my heart. I want my heart to be right before God. I want to be worthy of Jesus’ death of His resurrection… of His existence. I pray He gets the worship and the glory He deserves.

What is your prayer today?

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Urgency, the Sense of it and the Lack Thereof

Saturday, February 7th, 2009

clockSense of urgency is important in achieving your goals. I have noticed that I may be laid back at times but when work calls, I always have that sense of urgency. I must do my best at each task and must complete it fast. That’s how I do with my writings. I may end up having grammatical errors, wrong spellings, weird sentence structures… but I make sure I correct all the wrong things that are brought to my attention before I complete and submit for approval. If of course, after completion, I still have mistakes, that’s because of my naivety… or lack of knowledge.

Here hubby comes into the picture. And I always appreciate the effort of correcting me.

Sense of urgency. Sometimes people relate it to being impatient. I don’t. It’s finishing a task by the deadline. Not a last minute thing to do.You don’t wait until the heavy ball falls on your head to decide to finally make a move to avoid it. By the time you move, your head has already been hit!

Sense of urgency. It’s my personality.

Sense of urgency and the lack of it (at least in hubby’s part), has been my struggle for 5 years in my marriage.

I dislike it when people are slow to decide… only to realize that at the end of the day… we come up with the same decision.

The lack of sense of urgency results to a lot of disappointments and frustrations.

When can people learn to have a sense of it? When can people learn that being patient is not equal to a lack of sense of urgency?

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